Everyone deserves a healthy relationship… and so does your child.
If a boyfriend, girlfriend, partner, or close friend who is not the parent of your child engages in abusive behavior, it affects your child too. Even in the absence of abuse, there are warning signs that everyone can look for.
The Center of Family Safety and Healing has provided a list of questions to consider when starting or deepening a partner relationship:
- Does that boyfriend, girlfriend or partner have children of their own? How do they parent them?
- Does the person show anger or impatience when your child cries or has a tantrum?
- Does the person ridicule or call your child bad names?
- Does the person think it’s funny to scare your child?
- Does the person exhibit controlling behavior or get physically aggressive with you?
- Does your child appear worried or scared around that person?
Educate yourself about the 3 R’s: Recognize signs. Respond appropriately. Refer concerns of abuse.
For more information contact the Center for Family Safety and Healing.